Sometimes we get confused between loving a partner and losing ourselves in the relationship with a partner.
The most common reasons that make us lose ourselves is the relationship is:
1. Lack of Presence
When you are not present or when you do not live in the present moment.
2. Lack of self-worth
When you feel that you do not worth being loved so you need to ‘pay’ or ‘beg’ for the love of others.
3. Cultural or family beliefs
When you are in a relationship because you have to! In many cultures after a certain age, especially if you are a woman, society almost obliges you to find a partner. Society beliefs and unwritten rules are well installed in our psyche and can direct unconsciously our lives.
The best way to never lose yourself in the relationship is to build up a better relationship with yourself! In this way, you will never be alone!