My work with Tantra has several approaches:

Shamanic approach
Tantra is not a way to misuse our sexual energy nor a way to learn various sexual postures but to connect with what sexual energy really is; the love of mother earth which penetrates the core of our being.
In my shamanic approach, our sexual energy is the energy of mother earth- penetrating us and giving us our fuel to live.

When we let this energy fuse with our body, it gives us vitality and whatever we need to create a fulfilling and happy life!
When the earthy energy rises through our column, transforming into a more sweet sexual energy that starts nourishing all our chakras.

In that state, we become one with nature! We can find ourselves losing  control and becoming one with all elements; we can surrender to the  fire, make love with water, flow with the wind and embrace the loving
touch of the earth.

This brings us into a state of “Nirvana”!

The path of self-development is not the one that leads us to an  illumination outside the body but the path that leads us to the  the realization that we are Gods inside matter!

Senses-the Gates to Nirvana

Another approach to Tantra is the activation and awakening of the senses as Gates to the Divine.

One way to find the Divine inside the body is through the senses.

We can find the Divine in everything that the senses can perceive;  smelling the aroma of the coffee, eating a juicy mango, letting ourselves be taken by a melody, letting a simple touch ravish us,  absorbing all the beauty of the world with our eyes…

It is when presence meets energy when our inner man meets our inner woman and flows in a creative dance within.

…and this takes me to another approach of my tantric teachings…

Our inner man and woman

A healthy inner man is responsible for the presence and honesty we show to ourselves. He is always there to support us no matter what, show us the best path for us, and keep us in our center.
A healthy inner man is the part of ourselves that sets up goals and achieves them with discipline, not self-demanding or perfectionism. It is the part of us that whenever we fall, he asks us with lots of love to come back to our feet and continue. Like a peaceful warrior, he holds a sword that he uses to cut the obstacles on his path and reflect his internal light to the external reality. He holds the keys to the temple of «Presence»!
He is there, present, centered, focused, and calm.

A healthy inner woman is the one who is not afraid to let emotions flow. The part inside us which is connected to our intuition and earth. The part that is not afraid to surrender to the Spirit and give Him/Her the lead. Our inner woman is responsible for our pleasure, fun, craziness, and wildness! She holds the keys to the temple of «Unconditional Love».

When these two come together and merge in love inside us, Tantra appears through the beautiful dance of the polarities. And even though we are all deep inside pure divine beings without genders,  having healthy access to our polarities can add health, beauty, success, sparkle and joy to our lives.

The feminine and masculine are two archetypes that the Spirit uses to enjoy living on earth. They are like costumes that the Spirit can wear in different moments. And there is nothing more liberating for the Spirit to wear any costume It wants in order to express Its grandiosity on this planet.

Tantra is a journey of self-development not happening somewhere inside your mind but deep inside your cells where the vibration of love always yearns to meet your presence and inner Divine to realize Its existence in the form of matter!