Sacred Sex
Sex, like everything in life, can either unconsciously feed our weaknesses or serve as a conscious means of healing them. The crucial element in the above statement is consciousness. There exists an entire realm concealed behind the act of sex and the manner in which it is approached.
Engaging in sex can be driven by various reasons, some healthy and others unhealthy, of which one may not be fully aware. Unhealthy motivations may include:
Releasing stress
Maintaining a partner in the relationship
Exerting control over a partner
Unhealthy energetic exchange
Boosting self-esteem
Filling a void of affection and love, stemming from childhood
Losing oneself in indulgence (akin to smoking, drinking, taking drugs, etc.) and more
A healthier motivation for engaging in sex is to relish life and connect with your partner. Additionally, it can be utilized as a tool for self-exploration, uncovering different facets of oneself that may not be apparent. Above all, sex can be employed as a healing process and a ritual in service to the Divine, referred to as Sacred Sex.
SACRED SEX
Engaging in lovemaking in a sacred manner involves:
creating a secure environment within your home.
Proceed gradually, being fully present in your body and conscious of anything that may arise from your shadow to your consciousness.
Breathe deeply and pay attention to various touches, kisses, and movements.
Experience surrendering to the love blossoming from your union, being fully present. It is a moment where your control system can relax, melt, and reveal what lies behind your need for control. If emotions emerge, allow them to flow and express them without causing harm to your partner.
Ultimately, always set aside time for relaxation in an embrace of profound bliss.
Each time you connect with your partner in this manner, you are healing yourself, moving closer to love, and stepping even nearer to the Divine. It's advisable to engage in this experience only with partners who can hold space for you and vibrate at the same frequency as you.
